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Uma Girish/Light After Loss's avatar

As someone who’s almost 61, most of the Shoulds and rules and the Pressure of Doingness have fallen away. I never saw myself as a doer even when I was young and now I have deepened into just Being. I’m so grateful for this moment, this life, this presence and I’m fully worthy of every little joy I experience. Thank you for sharing your in-the-moment insights. They’re precious. YOU are precious ❤️

Lisa Olivera's avatar

All of this, yes 🧡 such wisdom. Thank you.

Linda's avatar

You say you’re going to stop trying to say something profound - and yet that’s exactly what you did! As always, thanks for your words of wisdom.

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thank you for reading 🧡

Jenny Booth Potter's avatar

Read this aloud to my husband today. We both needed this - thank you ❤️

H Kay's avatar

I always appreciate your posts. I appreciate that they are not too frequent (as in, not written and posted for the sake of keeping to a schedule). Short or long, I appreciate that you show up when it feels right to you--at least that's how it feels when reading your work. As a reader, I can feel this intention, which is why I always stop and take a moment to read your posts. Thank you for creating these moments of calm reflection in this busy world. This is important work you're doing.

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thank you for this reflection 💛

Shaz's avatar

It was still SO profound!

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thanks for reading 💛

Flo's avatar

Wow this was so encouraging and much needed. I woke up this morning feeling like my day really had no direction and I knew I’d like to get back to sleep for a bit more before starting the day “officially.” I leaned into that and got the nap in. Then I saw this shortly after. I’m just going to keep telling it slow and follow my body’s lead🙏🏾

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Follow the body's lead, yes 💛

Lizzy's avatar

Congrats on finishing the program! I got my Masters from CIIS and was always curious about pursuing that program for post- masters.

Also, lovely writing today, per usual ;) Thanks for sharing!

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thank you! They have a lot of wonderful programs.

Claudia Mandelli's avatar

I always appreciate your reflections - powerful reminders. Excited for your second book and for you to go back to seeing clients tomorrow! Also, kudos on this beautiful new certificate and how it will support and integrate your therapeutic work 💛

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thank you so much, Claudia 💛

Karen H's avatar

"and and and" So many thoughts and things to do. I listened to my body today that is so tired and just not feeling the best. I played Family Feud with my 17 year old who finally wants to play games with me. Presence for my kids, and presence for myself. Thank you always for the gentle reminders. Our power was out for a few hours last night and they hung out in my room. They are quite talkative late in the evening! I miss their little snuggly selves but these teen years are interesting.

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thank you for sharing 💛

Laila's avatar

This was excellent and just what I needed. Also, thanks for sharing the article about deep casual hosting!

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Such a good one!

Lisa N.'s avatar

This was so sweet, thank you for sharing! <3

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Thanks for reading 💛

Marisol Muñoz-Kiehne's avatar

If we over plan,

how will synchronicity

find and surprise us?

...

If we over prepare,

how will serendipity

catch, astonish us?

...

If we over think

how will spontaneity

delight us, school us?

Lisa Olivera's avatar

Lovely as always 💛 thank you.

Ruth's avatar

Enjoy feeling that weight of your precious little one.

Ruth Morata's avatar

Waking up to, tending to, surrendering to what the most tangible present invites us to experience 🤍 Making that choice.

PS: "I deleted my second brain". Chills.

PozoleMind's avatar

Thank you for this offering. A beautiful reminder of the medicine that we possess within us, the the ability to be more present in our lives. As someone who struggles with rumination, mindfulness in different areas of my life has been instrumental in healing and finding peace, and sometimes I need that reminder.

Paula Laureano's avatar

Thank you. I might say that this is the most beautiful text I've ever read from you.